My baby shower

Tuesday, January 24, 2017

This past Saturday was my baby shower! My best friends spoiled me and baby girl to death. Everything was absolute perfection, it felt surreal! Going through infertility, you dream about your baby shower. I never knew if I would have one so it was definitely a day I will never forget.


On the menu was cucumber sandwiches, a cheese platter, meatballs, spinach balls, fruit skewers, deviled eggs, turkey pinwheels, and chicken salad croissants. For dessert there were cupcakes and delicious fruit cookies.

And if you knew my friends, you know there was a mimosa bar. I was dying a little on the inside watching everyone sip their champs while I sipped lemonade, but totally worth it for baby girl!


They had a "guest book" where everyone signed a sweet message to baby girl in the inside of the book "Guess How Much I Love You". My very favorite detail. I was crying as I read through all the messages and how loved she already is. I can't wait to rock her and read this book to her a million times!


One of my best friends, Morgan, painted this for baby girl's nursery. How beautiful is it?! She is so talented.


Love my family. My momma, sisters and niece.


We are on the countdown down!! 6.5 weeks or less!

Pregnancy update: weeks 29-33

Thursday, January 19, 2017


How far along?
32 weeks and 5 days

Size of baby?
Head of lettuce


Movement?
All day, everyday. She is moving around all the time, it looks like an alien lives in my belly.

Symptoms?
Have been feeling great recently. No more back pain (knock on wood) and no headaches. Have been having Braxton Hicks constantly which is a little uncomfortable but not painful. A tiny bit of swelling in my feet after a long day at work but wearing compression stockings has really helped.

Workouts?
Still doing my best. They are getting a lot more difficult. Still trying to go to the gym 3-4 days a week and do cardio for 30 minutes then upper body weights and some legs. I get out of breath really easily and have Braxton Hicks during cardio so I am just listening to my body and doing what feels ok.


Sleep?
Pretty awful. I typically require 9+ hours of sleep a night to function normally, which has been my biggest fear about having a baby. However, I think God is prepping me for no sleep. I go to bed around 9 and fall asleep immediately, get a good 3-4 hours, then I am basically up the rest of the night. Thankfully I do feel like I am getting used to it. Sleepy but ok!

Gender?
All girl!


Weight gain?
About 22 lbs! Woah! It really doesn't seem like that much to me but I am soaking up every minute of it and not worrying about the scale.

Cravings/aversions?
Craving sweets allllll the time which is so weird for me. Usually I would choose salty over sweet any day but not lately. I have been eating candy which is also so unlike me. Always hungry and I snack on healthy snacks all day at work like apples, raisins, protein bars, greek yogurt, bananas, etc. Trying to eat healthy but allowing myself to eat dessert whenever my sweet tooth hits.


Nursery?
We've made some progress but it doesn't look like it. We finally picked a paint color and hired a painter who is coming next week finally. Also picked out fabric and trim for our curtains which are currently being made. They should be done in 2 weeks and I am SUPER excited about them! Found a gorgeous gold mirror at Hobby Lobby for over her changing table. Also having an abstract painting done for over her crib which is in the works. Hopefully in the next few weeks things will really start coming together.

Best/worst part of the week?
If you follow me on Instagram, you probably saw that we had a scare last week. I went for my regular check on Thursday and my blood pressure was a little elevated. They checked it multiple times and it stayed up which worried my doctor, because my BP is always super normal. They wanted to make sure everything was ok so they did a stress test, blood work and an ultrasound which were all normal thankfully. What was supposed to be a quick 15 minute appointment turned into 4 hours. It was a treat seeing baby girl on ultrasound though. She already weighed 5 lbs last week and they said they expect her weight to double, so she would likely be 10 lbs if she goes to 40 weeks. Yikes. My doctor said we will do another ultrasound at 37 and if she's still huge he will induce me at 39 or schedule a C section at 40. This is giving me some anxiety but I'm trying to take it day by day... as long as she is healthy we will be fine!


As a side note: we found out our sweet furry baby has to have ACL surgery on her other leg. She had this surgery back in September and the 12 week recovery was brutal. We thought we were in the clear until she started limping 3 weeks ago. We took her to the vet who did her surgery and they confirmed that her other ACL is torn. We've decided to go ahead with surgery on Tuesday and hopefully she will be 5-6 weeks into recovery when the baby gets here. This has been stressing me out big time because I remember how much of a pain her recovery was... hence why my BP was probably high. We will get through it but it definitely throws a kink in my last 7 weeks of pregnancy.


Looking forward to?
My baby shower this weekend! All my best friends are coming into town to throw it for me. I feel so incredibly lucky and thankful. Going through infertility you dream about your own baby shower. It feels so surreal that we will be celebrating my baby girl this weekend with all my friends and family. I cannot wait!

2016- Our Year in Review

Friday, December 30, 2016

2016 was a whirlwind... filled with the highest of highs and the lowest of lows. If I had to sum it up into one phrase I would call 2016 "the year of the medical bills". Seriously so many bills (for us and for vet bills) it's ridiculous! 2016 left me pregnant with our miracle baby girl, which was obviously the highlight of our year, but I am ready to turn the page on 2016. I am praying that 2017 is our best year yet, filled with health and love and our baby girl! Here are some 2016 highlights:


We spent our 2nd anni/New Years in Antigua (recap part 1 and part 2)


graduated from Physician Assistant school and passed my board exam!


I started my first big girl job as an orthopedic Physician Assistant and I am so happy to say I still love my job. 


We went back to Chapel Hill, to our alma mater UNC, for a basketball game and reunion with my husband's former baseball teammates. Always a good time!


We made our infertility journey public. It had been on my heart to open up and share our struggle in hopes that it would help at least one other person. It has connected me with SO many other women who helped me through and that I am now helping get through.


My whole family went to Disney World! It was an absolute blast and so much fun watching my niece take it all in! (recap here)


April-- This month was alllll about shots. And not the tequila kind. We started my shots for the IVF process... operation baby Davis officially began! April was filled with 3+ shots a day and more doctor's appointments than I care to count.


May-- Had egg retrieval surgery and they retrieved 44 eggs!!! And we ended up with 28 healthy embryos, praise God! The recovery was rough but so glad to have this behind me.


Celebrated my nephew's 1st birthday. I love him so!


Spent Memorial Day weekend [and almost every weekend of the entire summer] at the beach.


June 24th-- Had our embryo transfer. A HUGE day for us!


June 29th-- Found out I was PREGNANT! Went to the doctor on July 3rd and it was confirmed with a blood test.


August-- Announced our pregnancy! (recap)


September-- Our furry baby had ACL surgery. Whew, remember when I said "the year of medical bills"? It was a rough 12 week recovery and heartbreaking to see her in pain.


October-- Found out we are having a baby GIRL and I was in complete shock!!! My husband was dying for a girl but I was convinced baby blue was in our future. I couldn't stop crying! (recap and video here)


Spent my birthday weekend in Charlotte with my best friend. Went to a Panthers game and got to go on the field which was super fun!


Spent Thanksgiving at my in-laws with both of our families.


Spent a girls weekend at the lake with my very best friends!


Had our Christmas card pictures taken.


Spent the weekend at The Umstead with my mom and sisters.


Attended lots of fun Christmas parties with my favorite date!


Christmas morning with my family, there's nothing better!

2016, you were full of ups and downs. Every year that we are healthy and happy is a good year, but I am praying that 2017 is our best year yet!

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